Managing Stress and Anxiety: Tips for Everyday Life

Stress and anxiety are something we all experience at different points in our lives. Whether you’re meeting someone for the first time, starting a new project, or adjusting to a big change, it’s normal to feel a bit on edge. But when these feelings become constant, they can affect your daily life. Understanding how stress and anxiety work and how to manage them can help you feel more in control.

Understanding Stress vs. Anxiety

Stress usually comes from an external source, like a looming deadline, a tough exam, or a disagreement with a friend. It tends to fade once the situation is resolved.

Anxiety, on the other hand, can feel constant, even in situations that aren’t actually threatening. It often shows up as persistent worry, tension, or a sense of dread that makes daily life more challenging.

Recognize Your Triggers

A great first step in managing stress is identifying what sets it off. Is it social pressure, lack of sleep, or a busy schedule? Once you know your triggers, you can take steps to minimize them or respond more effectively.

Practical Tips for Managing Stress

Develop a Gratitude Practice 

Focusing on what’s going well in your life can help put challenges in perspective. Try writing down three things you’re grateful for each day.

Create Predictability

Feeling out of control often increases stress. Build a routine with small, manageable steps to tackle problems. Focus on what you can control rather than what you can’t.

Build Your Support System

Having someone to talk to during tough times can make a huge difference. Reach out to friends, family, or campus support services when you need help.

Manage Acute Stress

Try techniques like deep breathing, positive self-talk, or mental rehearsal—visualizing yourself handling a challenging situation successfully. These strategies can help your body and mind return to calm.

Embrace Positive Stress and Resilience

Not all stress is bad. “Eustress” is the type of stress that motivates and excites you, like preparing for a performance or working toward a personal goal.

Building resilience, the ability to adapt in the face of challenges, can help you bounce back stronger and more confident.

Mindfulness and Flow

Mindfulness practices, such as meditation or immersive activities you enjoy, can reduce stress and anxiety.

Flow is a state where you’re completely absorbed in what you’re doing, losing track of time and self-consciousness. Achieving flow can improve focus, motivation, and overall well-being.

Seek Support When Needed

If stress or anxiety starts interfering with your daily life, don’t hesitate to reach out for help. Familiarizing yourself with available resources can make a big difference.

Bottom Line

Stress and anxiety are part of life, but they don’t have to control you. By identifying triggers, practicing mindfulness, and building strong support systems, you can manage stress effectively and build resilience for the future.

Small steps every day can make a big difference.

Need Support on Campus?

If you want to seek professional support, visit Lakehead University Student Health & Wellness for more information on the supports available on campus and to book an appointment.

 Reem Alfarwan, Peer Wellness Educator Lead

Being Kind to Yourself as You Set New Goals

The start of a new goal often comes with a burst of motivation. You feel inspired, ready to change habits, improve your life, and become a better version of yourself. However, alongside that, motivation can also come from pressure—pressure to get everything right, to move quickly, and to never make mistakes. This is where kindness toward yourself becomes not just helpful, but essential.

When setting new goals, many people fall into the trap of harsh self-judgment. Miss one workout, procrastinate on one assignment, or fall back into an old habit, and suddenly the inner critic takes over. This all-or-nothing thinking can quickly drain motivation and make goals feel overwhelming. Being kind to yourself doesn’t mean lowering your standards; it means creating conditions where growth is actually sustainable.

Self-kindness starts with realistic expectations. Big changes rarely happen overnight. Progress is usually slow, uneven, and full of learning moments. Instead of expecting perfection, aim for consistency and effort. A small step forward—reading one page, saving a few dollars, or taking a short walk—still counts. When you acknowledge these small wins, you reinforce positive behavior rather than discouraging yourself for what you haven’t done yet.

Another important part of being kind to yourself is recognizing that setbacks are normal. Everyone experiences them. They are not proof that you lack discipline or motivation; they are part of the process. When setbacks happen, try responding with curiosity instead of criticism. Ask yourself what got in the way and what you might do differently next time. This approach turns mistakes into opportunities for growth rather than reasons to quit.

Language also matters. The way you speak to yourself can either support your goals or sabotage them. If you wouldn’t say something to a close friend, it’s worth questioning why you say it to yourself. Replacing “I always fail” with “I’m learning how to do this better” can shift your mindset from defeat to resilience. Compassionate self-talk builds confidence and keeps you engaged, even when things feel hard.

Being kind to yourself also means allowing rest and flexibility. Pushing nonstop can lead to burnout, which makes goals harder to maintain. Rest is not a reward you earn after being productive; it is a necessary part of staying healthy and motivated. Giving yourself permission to pause, reset, or adjust your goals does not mean you’ve failed—it means you’re listening to your needs.

Ultimately, goals are meant to improve your life, not punish you. When you approach them with patience, understanding, and self-compassion, you create a healthier relationship with both your ambitions and yourself. Kindness doesn’t slow progress—it strengthens it. By treating yourself with the same care you’d offer someone you love, you give your goals the best chance to truly last.

 - Sarah Andrew, Peer Wellness Educator Lead

How to Develop Habits That Stick (Even After January)

Every January, motivation is high. The wolf den is packed, planners are colour-coded, and everyone’s convinced this is the year things finally change. And then… midterms happen. Winter drags on. Life gets busy.

If your New Year’s resolutions have fizzled before, you didn’t fail but maybe your approach did. Lasting change has a lot less to do with willpower and a lot more to do with small habits that fit with your life.

Why Resolutions Usually Don’t Work

Most resolutions focus on big outcomes:

  • Get fitter

  • Eat better

  • Be less stressed

The problem? Our brains don’t change behaviour based on vague intentions. They change through repeated actions, shaped by habits and environment. Add in the pressure to change everything at once and burnout isn’t a surprise. Motivation spikes (like January 1) are real, but they’re short-lived. The good news: there’s a better way.

Try This Instead: Habit-Based Change

A helpful reframe is shifting from what you want to who you’re becoming.

Instead of: “I need to work out more.”

Try: “I’m someone who moves my body regularly.”

That identity shift matters — and it’s built through small, doable habits.

4 Habit Shifts That Actually Stick

1. Make It Smaller Than You Think

If it feels impressive, it’s probably too big.

  • Work out 5 days a week

  • Move for 5 minutes

Small habits lower the barrier to starting. Consistency builds momentum — not intensity.

2. Change Your Space, Not Your Personality

Willpower is unreliable. Your environment does way more work than motivation ever will.

A few simple tweaks:

  • Keep a water bottle on your desk

  • Lay out workout clothes ahead of time

  • Charge your phone away from your bed if sleep is a goal

You’re not trying to be more disciplined; you’re making the healthier option easier.

3. Pick One or Two Things (Not Everything)

Trying to overhaul your entire life at once is a fast track to overwhelm.

Research consistently shows people are more successful when they:

  • Focus on fewer habits

  • Practice them consistently

  • Add more only once the first ones feel automatic

Less really is more.

4. Stop Chasing the “Fresh Start” Feeling

January motivation fades, and that’s normal. Real habits are built on random Tuesdays in February and stressful weeks in March. Missing a day isn’t failure. What matters is coming back.

What This Looks Like for Students

Here are some realistic swaps:

  • Instead of: “I’ll stop procrastinating”
    Try: “I’ll work on assignments for 10 minutes after class.”

  • Instead of: “I’ll manage stress better”
    Try: “I’ll take three slow breaths before opening my laptop.”

  • Instead of: “I’ll eat healthier”
    Try: “I’ll add one fruit or veggie to one meal a day.”

Small counts. Small sticks.

Want Built-In Structure? Try a Challenge

If you like a little accountability (and prizes don’t hurt), SHW challenges can be a great way to experiment with habit change .

  • Thawed Out Fitness Challenge (starts January 12)
    • A low-pressure way to get moving this winter. The goal isn’t perfection, it’s showing up consistently, by logging 21 workouts in 28 days (doing whatever kind of movement that feels good for you)
  • No Nic Challenge (January 19-23)
    • Thinking about cutting back or taking a break from nicotine? This challenge focuses on short-term change, daily check-ins, and support, not judgment.

Both challenges are designed to help you build habits gradually, with incentives along the way.

The Bottom Line

You don’t need a dramatic resolution to create change.

What actually works:

  • Habits tied to who you’re becoming

  • Changes that are small enough to repeat

  • Environments that support you

  • Progress over perfection

Remember that Lakehead has support available to you to support physical, financial, social, mental and academic wellbeing- use the WellU Key to explore!

New Year, Same You — A Fresh Start

At the beginning of each new year, the phrase “New Year, New Me” is constantly being thrown around on social media. While the new year can be a great time to make changes in your day to day life, it can also be a great time to simply reflect on the year past and re-assess areas of your life rather than attempting to become a completely different person in the span of a month. 

This is not to say you can’t make new year's resolutions, but more so to encourage making goals that are realistic and achievable rather than goals that require you to spend excessive amounts of money, overhaul a diet, or re-arrange your entire schedule.

Here are 4 tips for how to make sure your new goals/resolutions are achievable and not just a “show” for social media.

1. Reflect on What You Have Accomplished This Year. 

While January is a great time to make new goals, it is also a great opportunity to sit yourself down and reflect on all that you have accomplished this year—big or small. Even if all you accomplished this past year was surviving, that in itself is a huge accomplishment and something you should be proud of. 

2. Focus on the “Why” of your goals 

Yeah, making goals is a huge part of changing habits and routines, but without the “Why” factor, they are simply words on a paper. Make concrete goals that are both achievable and realistic within your daily life. 

3. The “Rule of One” 

While it can be exciting to jump right into becoming a better person and trying to accomplish your goals, focusing on one goal at a time can be a much better use of your time, rather than overwhelming yourself with throwing too many things on your plate. 

4. Choosing “Selective Accountability”

Selective Accountability is simply that— choosing yourself as the sole person to keep you accountable for completing your own goals. While it can be exciting to want to share all of your goals with your best friend, that can also be a slippery slope that leads to you overcompensating in fear of failure. When making new goals, especially in the beginning, it's okay to keep them to yourself and work in silence. You goals are for yourself, after all!

- Makayla Foster, Peer Wellness Educator Lead

 

Dealing with Cold Weather

The winter months can be difficult for many reasons. Dealing with going back to school after a break is challenging enough, but waking up for an 8 a.m. class to freezing weather makes getting out of bed feel impossible. Here are some tips for staying warm whether you live on-campus or commute. 

Layer, Layer, Layer 

In this cold weather, layering is your best friend. Layering can help trap heat, keep you from sweating, and give you more flexibility. 

  • A sweat-wicking base layer keeps you from sweating 
  • A mid-layer like a sweater, crewneck, or fleece helps lock in heat 
  • A warm winter jacket keeps you protected from the freezing weather and wind 

Don’t forget gloves, scarves, and hats! These prevent heat from leaving your body. 

Drink Water 

Staying hydrated is always important, even in the winter! Drinking water keeps your immune system strong and your body functioning properly. Always keeping your water bottle on you and filling up frequently is essential. 

Check the Weather 

You want to make sure you are prepared from the weather. This is especially important if you’re commuting. Check weather alerts and work any delays into your commute. You may need to work some extra time into your commute. Your safety comes first. If you ever feel unsafe traveling to school due to bad weather, make a judgement call and reach out to your instructor if necessary. 

It's also a good idea to download Lakehead's mobile safety app. You will be notified through the app of any campus closures due to inclement weather.

 

Keep a Winter Kit Handy 

Whether you are commuting or are on-campus, keeping a winter kit with you can make long, cold days feel more manageable, consider packing: 

  • Hand and toe warmers
  • An extra pair of gloves and socks 
  • Lip balm and moisturizer 
  • An umbrella for days of snow and rain 

For drivers, consider adding on: 

  • An ice/snow scraper 
  • A blanket 
  • Jumper cables 

Winter semester can feel exhausting. Dealing with school, personal responsibilities, and the freezing weather is overwhelming. Making sure you are well prepared for the weather can help alleviate some of the daily stress. Remember, if you need any extra support you can reach out to Student Health and Wellness.  

 

- Jordan Calleja, Peer Wellness Educator Lead

Winter-Survival Guide

Don’t Hibernate, Here’s What to Do in Thunder Bay This Winter

Winter in Thunder Bay doesn’t mean boring! If you’re staying on campus over the break, there’s plenty to see, do, and explore — whether you want some fresh air, a rush of adrenaline, or a cozy indoor escape from the cold. Here are my favourite ideas to stay active, clear your head, and soak up wintertime in the city.

Hit the Trails

  • Kamview Nordic Centre– Just outside the city, with over 30 km of groomed ski trails (and 5.5 km lit for night skiing!) plus many marked snowshoe trails. Great for classic or skate skiing, or for a chill snowshoe stroll. Bonus: there’s a chalet where you can warm up with a hot drink or soup. https://www.tbnordictrails.com/

Whether you’re after serene forest vibes or full-on ski vibes, there’s a trail waiting. Just bundle up, and check trail/equipment updates if you’re renting gear.

For the Adrenaline Seekers

  • Downhill skiing & snowboarding — If you like speed and slopes, check out Loch Lomond Ski Area or Mount Baldy Ski Area. Both have runs for different skill levels, and offer rentals and lessons if you’re new to it. https://www.lochlomond.ca/

  • Snow tubing at Mount Baldy — Want a simpler, fun ride without needing ski skills? Tubing is perfect: grab a tube, hop on the magic carpet lift, and zoom down. Easy, fun, and great with friends. https://www.skimountbaldy.ca/

Perfect if you want a big dose of winter fun, or try something new with your buddies.

Chill but Active

  • Skating / Outdoor rinks— You’ll find lots of outdoor rinks around Thunder Bay (some say the city has one of the highest rinks-per-capita!). The waterfront rink at Prince Arthur’s Landing is a favourite — perfect for a relaxing skate and a cozy hot-chocolate afterwards. https://www.thunderbay.ca/en/recreation/outdoor-skating.aspx

  • Sleigh rides & winter farm fun — Want something cozy and scenic? Sleigh rides through snowy countryside around Thunder Bay can be a magical experience — especially nice with friends. https://www.gammondalefarm.com/

Mix It Up

  • Local markets and events — If you want to stay warm but still soak in community vibes, check out spots like Goods & Co. Market. It’s a hub for local artisans, artists, seasonal events, and a nice break from the cold. https://goodscomarket.ca/

  • Historic & cultural outings — Learn something new or explore winter events at places like Fort William Historical Park. These spots can be a fun mix of history, community and winter atmosphere. https://fwhp.ca/

  • Stay social and explore downtown — Even a winter stroll downtown can lift your mood. Grab coffee, pop into cozy shops, or meet up with friends. It’s a great way to stay connected, explore locally, and break up the study grind.

A Few Tips to Stay Warm, Safe, and Happy

  • Dress in layers: warm base layer, waterproof outerwear, gloves, hat, a good pair of boots or snow boots. Winter weather can change fast!

  • Check trail and equipment status before heading out, especially if you rent skis or plan to hike/snowshoe. Some ski hills and trails depend on snow conditions.

  • Go with friends or campus buddies: winter adventures are more fun (and safer) with company.

  • Mix active and chill: winter isn’t just about skiing or skating. Balance high-energy days outdoors with relaxed cultural or indoor time.

  • Embrace the season: fresh air, snow, and the quiet beauty of winter can really do wonders for stress and well-being.

Staying on campus for winter break doesn’t have to feel like being stuck indoors. Thunder Bay offers a little bit of everything — from peaceful snowshoe paths to adrenaline-pumping ski hills, cozy indoor markets, and hidden winter gems waiting to be discovered. So bundle up, make a plan (or a spontaneous winter outing), and get out there — you might be pleasantly surprised how much a snowy walk or a skate can boost your mood.

Stay warm, stay active, and enjoy your winter break!

-Tahsin Anika, Health Promotions Activities Lead

The Winter Holidays: Finding Warmth in a Season That Can Feel Cold

The winter holidays are often described as the most wonderful time of the year, filled with cozy lights, festive food, and laughter shared among family and friends. But for some, this season can feel less like a celebration and more like a reminder of what is missing.

As we move from Halloween to Christmas and other winter holidays, many people look forward to reconnecting with loved ones. Yet for students, newcomers, or anyone far from home, the holidays can also bring unexpected feelings of loneliness and isolation.

When the Holidays Do Not Feel Joyful

Mental health challenges can increase right after the holidays, especially around New Year’s Day, this time of year can still be emotionally difficult, particularly for those already coping with stress, anxiety, or homesickness.

Many of us at Lakehead are part of a global community, far from the places and people we grew up with. When everyone else seems surrounded by family and tradition, it is easy to feel alone. If that sounds familiar, you are not alone and your feelings are valid.

How to Support Yourself and Others

Reach out early. Do not wait until the holidays to connect. Plan a dinner, call a friend, or check in with classmates before the break begins.

Create new traditions. If you cannot be home, start something new, such as a movie night, baking day, or community event to help you feel connected.

Offer support. If you know someone spending the holidays alone, a small gesture such as an invitation, a card, or a warm message can make a big difference.

Check in on your mental health. Stress and sadness can build quietly. Take time for rest, journaling, or mindfulness, and reach out if you need help.

Campus Support Is Always Here

Student Health and Wellness will be closed from December 22 to January 5, but support does not stop during the break. The WellU Key is available 24/7 and can help you find the resources that are accessible to you throughout the holiday period.

The WellU Key is your one-stop resource for mental health support. Complete a self-assessment and receive personalized recommendations about services, supports, and resources available both on and off campus. No matter when you need guidance, the WellU Key can point you in the right direction.

Together, We Can Light the Dark

The winter holidays can be both joyful and challenging. As we celebrate, let us also remember those who might be struggling and make space for connection and care. Whether you are surrounded by friends or spending time alone, know that support and community are always within reach.

-Reem Algarwan, Peer Wellness Educator

Celebrating the Holidays Safe: A Guide to Safe Substance Use during the Holidays

The holidays can be an exciting time to celebrate and take a break from a heavy course load. However, the holidays can also come with stress and pressure. This pressure could be to stay out late with friends and family who are drinking more. Whether you choose to use substances or not, it is important that you make well informed decisions that keep you and your loved ones safe.  

Know Your Limits 

You probably know what you can and can’t tolerate. However being out with loved ones may cause you to lose track of how much you are drinking or smoking. Make sure to start slow and eat something. Drink water between drinks or while smoking. This helps you stay hydrated, avoid becoming overly intoxicated, and avoid that hangover the next day. Also remember that mixing substances can increase your risk of becoming sick and can potentially be dangerous.  

Plan a way Home  

If you are going out, before you leave, figure out how you are going to get home. Having a designated driver, using rideshare apps, using public transit, or even spending the night are options. Don’t drive intoxicated and avoid being stuck trying to figure out a way to get home in the middle of the night during a snow storm. 

Know What’s in a Substance

If you are using substances, make sure you are aware of the source of that substance. Contamination poses a real safety risk. If you are in a situation where it's possible you'll encounter opioids, naloxone kits are available for free at many pharmacies and save lives. 

On a Prescription? 

If you take prescription medication(s) make sure you talk to your doctor before using substances. Certain medications cannot be mixed with other substances. Do not risk your health, make sure you are well informed.  Take Care of Yourself Afterwards The day after a night out make sure you rest, eat, and hydrate. Be kind to yourself and practice self-care.   

- Jordan Calleja, Peer Wellness Educator Lead

Eating During Exam Season

It’s getting to be that time of year again, exam season. You may be working and studying so much that you forget to nourish your body as well as your brain. I know it happens to me, too. I will be working away and realize dinner time has passed. I understand how hard it is to shop, cook, and actually eat food during stressful times like exam season. It is challenging to find time to eat when you’re deep into your studying. 

Nourishing your body while using your brain can even heighten your abilities. Research shows that eating a well-balanced snack or meal before taking an exam or doing work can improve your performance. Personally, my problem is just knowing what to buy and make that isn’t going to take a substantial amount of time. I have included some of the recipes I’ve tried or am going to try. These snacks you can take to your study spot or eat before your studying, which won’t take up more than 30 minutes. You might even have a lot of these ingredients in your pantry, and you don’t even know it! 

  • Apple Cookies! This snack is great if you’re craving a little sweetness when you’re studying, but want to keep that focus going. Apples contain an antioxidant called “quercetin” that supports your memory function. Here is an online recipe: https://rachelschultz.com/2014/04/09/apple-cookies/?m= 

There are many other recipes you can find online when you search quick study snack recipes, but these are the ones I have put on my list and have researched to back up why they are good. Remember, there are people here to support you during this time and want to help. A great resource for food is the Food Resource Centre, and they even have some recipes of their own! (https://lusu.ca/centre/student-centres/food-resource-centre/)

-Kayla McAdam, Peer Wellness Educator Lead

How Caffeine Affects Your Sleep

As the semester gets busier and exams get closer, many students lean on caffeine to stay alert during late-night study sessions or long days on campus. Coffee, tea, energy drinks — they’re everywhere, and they can feel essential when you're trying to keep up. But caffeine can have a bigger impact on your sleep and stress levels than you might expect.

Since sleep plays a major role in memory, concentration, and emotional well-being, understanding how caffeine affects your body can help you feel more balanced during the academic year.


How Caffeine Interferes With Sleep

Caffeine works by blocking adenosine, a chemical in your brain that naturally builds up throughout the day and helps you wind down at night. When this process is blocked, you stay alert, but your sleep cycle can be disrupted.

Even if caffeine doesn’t feel like it’s keeping you awake, it may still affect your sleep quality by:

  • Making it harder to fall asleep

  • Reducing total sleep time

  • Decreasing deep, restorative sleep

Because caffeine has a long half-life, it can stay in your system for many hours. Even a mid-afternoon coffee could still affect you at bedtime.


Signs Caffeine Might Be Affecting You

Caffeine’s impact can show up in different ways, including:

  • Feeling tired even after “enough” hours of sleep

  • Relying on caffeine earlier in the day to feel awake

  • Trouble falling asleep or staying asleep

  • Feeling jittery, anxious, or restless when it’s time to rest

  • Difficulty concentrating, or experiencing energy crashes during the day

Often, these issues can become self-reinforcing: poor sleep leads to more caffeine, which leads to poorer sleep.


What You Can Do (Without Giving Up Caffeine Entirely)

You don’t have to stop drinking caffeine. Instead, try being more mindful about how and when you consume it. For example:

  • Avoid caffeine within 8 hours of your bedtime.

  • Sip lower-caffeine or caffeine-free drinks later in the day (like herbal tea or water).

  • Eat balanced meals so your energy stays stable without relying solely on caffeine.

  • Get some natural light or spend a few minutes outside — daylight helps regulate your body’s internal clock.

  • If you’re feeling drowsy mid-day, try a short walk or gentle movement instead of another caffeinated drink.

These simple changes can help you stay alert when you need it and get better sleep when you rest.


Helpful Resources You Can Use

Test & Exam Anxiety: A Guide for Teachers to Support Students (CICMH)

This guide provides strategies for recognizing and managing test or exam anxiety — a common issue for many students, especially during periods of heavy studying or poor sleep. It can help you:

  • Understand triggers of anxiety related to academic pressure and sleep issues

  • Learn coping strategies, including time management, studying techniques, and stress-reduction tips

  • Better support yourself or peers by recognizing signs of anxiety early

Combining this resource with good sleep habits and mindful caffeine use can help reduce anxiety and improve performance during exams.

Sleep Doctor — Home Sleep Test & Sleep Advice

This site offers tools and advice to help you assess and improve your sleep, including a home sleep test that can identify possible sleep problems. It’s useful if:

  • You suspect caffeine is affecting your sleep quality

  • You have trouble falling or staying asleep regularly

  • You want to understand your sleep patterns better and find ways to improve rest

Using Sleep Doctor’s resources alongside mindful caffeine use and anxiety-management strategies can support overall wellness and better mental health.


If You’re Struggling With Energy, Sleep, or Stress — You’re Not Alone

Many students juggle caffeine use, sleep deprivation, and academic pressure at the same time. It can be hard to know where to start — but you do not have to do it alone.

Try the WellU Key

At Student Health and Wellness, you can use the WellU Key for a quick self-assessment that helps match you with appropriate support services based on your needs.

Access it here:
? https://lakehead.portal.gs/en/

Final Thoughts

Caffeine can be a helpful tool when used carefully. By being mindful about when and how much you consume, paying attention to how your body responds, and using supportive resources, you can maintain good energy while protecting your sleep and mental health. If you ever feel overwhelmed, anxious, or exhausted — remember: you’re not alone, and help is available.

-Reem Alfarwan, Peer Wellness Educator Lead 

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